With two young girls I am constantly aware of anything I say about my size, weight, hair, skin, make up etc. Anything I say will shoot to their hearts as second-hand judgement. Whether they realize its damage at the moment or not until years later it’s no less harmful than growing up in a smoker’s home.
The universe will hand them plenty of reasons to dislike themselves. I refuse to let any of those reasons come from my mouth.
Little ones you are good and valuable and important. Your shirt size, haircut and make up have nothing to do with it.